{"id":36038,"date":"2024-11-20T12:43:47","date_gmt":"2024-11-20T04:43:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=36038"},"modified":"2025-01-23T15:50:58","modified_gmt":"2025-01-23T07:50:58","slug":"international-survivors-of-suicide-loss-day","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=36038&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;36042&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Background and Purpose<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;36044&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;6\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In 1999, Senator Harry Reid, who lost his father to suicide, introduced a resolution in the United States Senate that led to the establishment of International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day, designated to always fall on the Saturday before American Thanksgiving. In 2024, this day will be observed on Saturday, November 23. On this day, survivors of suicide loss can come together to find connection, understanding, and hope through their shared experiences.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day also provides an opportunity for governments, organizations, and institutions to highlight the importance of suicide prevention and mental health. They can collectively raise awareness and foster understanding, creating an environment where the public feels comfortable seeking help. This enables communities to actively support those affected by suicide, helping to break the stigma surrounding it.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner disable_element=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;35462&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;6\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">1999\u5e74\uff0c\u66fe\u7d93\u6b77\u7236\u89aa\u81ea\u6bba\u4e8b\u6545\u7684\u7f8e\u570b\u53c3\u8b70\u54e1Harry Reid\uff0c\u5411\u53c3\u8b70\u9662\u63d0\u51fa\u5c07\u6bcf\u5e7411\u6708\u7f8e\u570b\u611f\u6069\u7bc0\uff08Thanksgiving Day\uff09\u524d\u7684\u661f\u671f\u516d\u5b9a\u70ba\u300c\u570b\u969b\u81ea\u6bba\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u95dc\u61f7\u65e5\u300d\uff08International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day\uff09\u3002\u5728\u9019\u5929\uff0c\u81ea\u6bba\u8005\u7684\u5bb6\u5c6c\u3001\u89aa\u4eba\u548c\u597d\u53cb\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u900f\u904e\u4e0d\u540c\u6d3b\u52d5\uff0c\u5305\u62ec\u500b\u6848\u8f14\u5c0e\u3001\u5c0f\u7d44\u805a\u6703\u3001\u63a2\u8a2a\u540c\u8def\u4eba\u7b49\uff0c\u91cb\u653e\u60c5\u7dd2\u3001\u8ffd\u601d\u60bc\u5ff5\u3001\u4e92\u76f8\u5b89\u6170\u548c\u9f13\u52f5\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u8a34\u8aaa\u548c\u50be\u807d\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u6545\u4e8b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u672c\u6703\u7684\u81ea\u6bba\u5371\u6a5f\u8655\u7406\u4e2d\u5fc3\u65bc2004\u5e749\u6708\u6210\u7acb\u5168\u6e2f\u9996\u500b\u300c\u81ea\u6bba\u6b7b\u4ea1\u4eba\u58eb\u89aa\u53cb\u81ea\u52a9\u5c0f\u7d44\u300d\uff0c\u5e6b\u52a9\u7d44\u54e1\u8d70\u51fa\u56f0\u5883\uff0c\u8b93\u9047\u5230\u540c\u985e\u56f0\u5883\u7684\u4eba\u58eb\uff0c\u8d70\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u5f7c\u6b64\u5728\u4e92\u76f8\u652f\u6301\u4e0b\uff0c\u597d\u597d\u9762\u5c0d\u548c\u9069\u61c9\u65b0\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u9054\u81f4\u52a9\u4eba\u81ea\u52a9\u7684\u76ee\u6a19\uff0c\u643a\u624b\u8d70\u51fa\u56f0\u5883\uff0c\u91cd\u904e\u6b63\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u300c\u81ea\u6bba\u6b7b\u4ea1\u4eba\u58eb\u89aa\u53cb\u81ea\u52a9\u5c0f\u7d44\u300d\u5176\u5f8c\u6539\u540d<a href=\"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=31242#rtl\"><strong>\u300c\u6d3b\u51fa\u5f69\u8679\u670d\u52d9\u300d<\/strong><\/a>\uff0c\u5bd3\u610f\u7d44\u54e1\u8de8\u904e\u50b7\u75db\uff0c\u6d3b\u51fa\u5f69\u8679\u3002\u7531\u65bc<a href=\"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=31242#rtl\"><strong>\u300c\u6d3b\u51fa\u5f69\u8679\u670d\u52d9\u300d<\/strong><\/a>\u6210\u6548\u986f\u8457\uff0c\u672c\u6703\u65bc2009\u5e7411\u6708\u7372\u793e\u6703\u798f\u5229\u7f72\u9032\u4e00\u6b65\u64a5\u6b3e\uff0c\u70ba\u81ea\u6bba\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u63a8\u51fa\u4e00\u7ad9\u5f0f\u7684\u300c\u6d3b\u51fa\u5f69\u8679\u670d\u52d9\u300d\u3002\u5305\u62ec\u81ea\u6bba\u8eab\u6545\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u500b\u6848\u8f14\u5c0e\u3001\u300c\u672a\u5b8c\u7684\u5c0f\u8aaa\u300d\u81ea\u6bba\u8eab\u6545\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u6cbb\u7642\u6027\u5c0f\u7d44\u3001\u300c\u5fc3\u9748\u7a2e\u7c7d\u300d\u81ea\u6bba\u8eab\u6545\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u6cbb\u7642\u6027\u5c0f\u7d44\u4ee5\u53ca\u300c\u6d3b\u51fa\u5f69\u8679\u300d\u81ea\u6bba\u8eab\u6545\u8005\u89aa\u53cb\u652f\u63f4\u5c0f\u7d44\u3002[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1715154055605{background-color: rgba(239,239,0,0.05) !important;*background-color: rgb(239,239,0) !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Why We Need to Care the Survivors of Suicide Loss?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Edwin S. Shneidman, father of contemporary suicidology from the United States, indicated that six people are greatly affected by each suicide death, including parents, children, spouses, siblings, friends, colleagues, etc. In Hong Kong, there are approximately 1,000 cases of suicide death each year, affecting at least 6,000 to 30,000 people. Research shows that survivors of suicide loss have a higher likelihood of suicidal thoughts, making them a high-risk group for suicide. Apart from these numbers, many people have attempted suicide or have serious suicidal thoughts. Each suicide or suicide attempt leads to a serious impact on the family, friends, the community, and society, affecting millions of people globally. International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day serves as a reminder of the widespread impact of suicide on friends, families, and communities, encouraging the public to express sympathy and support for those who have lost someone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When a family member passes away due to non-natural causes (such as accidents, homicide, and suicide), other family members have to address a large amount of post-mortem, funeral arrangements, and death registration. At the same time, they must cope with the emotional pain of losing a loved one suddenly. The grief experienced by family members is particularly intense that the feelings involved are truly indescribable to outsiders. In addition to the grief, they may also have a multitude of inner conflicts, including confusion and disbelief, guilt and self-blame, shame, loneliness, abandonment, anger, repression, and even thoughts of suicide. It is common to hear survivors of suicide loss say, &#8220;If I could trade my life for his\/her survival, I would do so without hesitation.&#8221; According to the research conducted abroad and by our organization, survivors of suicide loss not only experience feelings of self-blame, guilt, anger, and hopelessness but are also more prone to suffering from psychological disorders such as depression or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and even exhibit suicidal behaviors.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1715154143890{margin-top: 40px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;6\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;]The following responses across physiological, cognitive, behavioral, and social dimensions may commonly occur by the survivors of suicide loss:<\/p>\n<table style=\"height: 167px;\" width=\"678\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 83px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><strong>Physiological responses<\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 491px; background-color: #fefef2;\">Muscle tension, dyspnea, tachycardia, insomnia, changing in appetite, loss of energy, fatigue etc.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 83px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><strong>Cognitive responses<\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 491px; background-color: #fefef2;\">Refusing to acknowledge the fact of a family member or friend&#8217;s suicide death, may attribute it to an accident, homicide, or hope it is just a nightmare. Common questions that often arise include: Why did this happen? What was going through their mind at that moment? Did they ever think about me?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 83px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><strong>Behavioral responses<\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 491px; background-color: #fefef2;\">Continuously seeking the truth, attempting to piece together the life and words of the deceased before the incident repeatedly, or turning to superstition or divination in efforts to find a &#8220;culprit,&#8221; attributing the event to one&#8217;s own or others&#8217; negligence and responsibility towards the deceased, striving to fulfill any unfinished wishes of the deceased as much as possible, talking to oneself, and finding it difficult to trust others.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 83px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><strong>Social responses<\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 491px; background-color: #fefef2;\">Feeling lonely, becoming withdrawn and unwilling to engage with others, impacting daily life.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;36047&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; onclick=&#8221;link_image&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Academic Research<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">A study &#8220;Exploring the Causes of Suicide among Hong Kong Residents&#8221; conducted by our organization from 2004 to 2007 was the first academic research in Hong Kong to focus on the issues faced by the survivors of suicide loss. The study involved interviews of 150 survivors of suicide loss aged between 15 and 59, whose family members or friends had died by suicide between August 2002 and December 2004. In addition to inquiring about the mental, physical, family background, psychological, social, and lifestyle factors of the suicide victims, the interviews also covered the perspectives, feelings, psychological, social, and physical adaptations of the interviewees during their mourning period.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The research found that after the suicide of family members or friends, they experienced stress (45.4%), loneliness (31.3%), anxiety (42.7%), difficulties in daily life (17.5%), and confusion (49.7%). They also reported physical pains such as headache and backache. Furthermore, they felt shame due to the incident, with some also affected by media reports on suicide.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1730790898941{background-color: rgba(239,239,0,0.05) !important;*background-color: rgb(239,239,0) !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Care Services<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If negative thoughts arising from the survivors of suicide loss are not managed appropriately, their lives in the future can be affected, also potentially lead them to depression or self-harm, causing further distress. Our Suicide Crisis Intervention Centre established the first \u201cRelatives and Friends of the Suicidal People Self-help Group\u201d in Hong Kong in September 2004, hoping to help the members get out of the predicament by gathering them together to gain mutual support, live a new live and ultimately achieve the goal of \u201chelping others to help themselves\u201d. All group members have experienced the suicide of a family member or friend, members in the group can find a community of companions who can empathize with their experiences and trust each other. Together, they support one another, share their stories, attend regular meetings and lectures to understand their own stress and emotional management, and encourage each other to overcome challenges hand in hand.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The \u201cRelatives and Friends of the Suicidal People Self-help Group\u201d was later renamed as the <a href=\"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=33205&amp;lang=en#rtl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLive the Rainbow Service\u201d<\/a>, implying that the group members can overcome the pain and to live a colorful life. Due to the remarkable results of the <a href=\"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=33205&amp;lang=en#rtl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLive the Rainbow Service\u201d<\/a>, our organization was further funded by the Social Welfare Department to launch a one-stop shop \u201cLive the Rainbow Service\u201d for relatives and friends of the suicide deaths starting from November 2009, activities include counselling for relatives and friends of the suicidal deaths, therapeutic Group for relatives and friends of the suicidal deaths such as The Unfinished Novel, Soul Seed, and Live the Rainbow Support Group for Relatives and Friends of the Suicidal Deaths.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Video Recap<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;2\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;8\/12&#8243;][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=NbPDDjTWxco&#8221; el_width=&#8221;60&#8243; el_aspect=&#8221;43&#8243; align=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;2\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner disable_element=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;2\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;35498&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;right&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;35499&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;2\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1715151123043{background-color: rgba(239,239,0,0.05) !important;*background-color: rgb(239,239,0) !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1; text-align: center; background-color: #fefef2;\"><strong>Dos and Don&#8217;ts of Those Around the Survivors of Suicide Loss<\/strong><\/h2>\n<table style=\"height: 400px;\" width=\"1072\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center; width=300px; background-color: #fefef2;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Dos<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<\/td>\n<td style=\"text-align: center; width=300px; background-color: #fefef2;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Don&#8217;ts<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>O <\/strong><strong>Initiate care and listen actively<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>This can help reducing anxiety for grieving friends and families, allowing them to express complex emotions and thereby find emotional healing.<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>X <\/strong><strong>Avoid forcing them to express feelings<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>Respect and accept the emotional pace of them. If they are not ready or willing to share, excessive care may inadvertently add pressure and complicate matters for them.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>O Listening patiently and encouragement<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>They may repeat and recount the same experiences and feelings. Encourage them to express their feelings and listen patiently, which can help in healing their grief.<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>X <\/strong><strong>Avoid answering questions about the grieving process<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>Friends and family members may have many questions such as the reasons behind the suicide. Avoid providing answers on their behalf.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>O Calling the deceased by name<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>When discussing the deceased with friends and family members, call the deceased by their name to show respect and remembrance.<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>X <\/strong><strong>Avoid imposing personal values and opinions<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>If you find it challenging to understand or agree with the values and opinions of friends and family members, or if you hold a different perspective on the deceased&#8217;s suicide decision, refrain from expressing personal criticism, blame, or prejudice.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>O Maintaining an accepting attitude<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>The news of a friend or family member&#8217;s suicide can evoke complex emotions. Maintaining an accepting attitude towards them, allowing them to express their emotions without fear of your reaction to their intense feelings.<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>X <\/strong><strong>Avoid taking the lead in their grieving process<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>Refrain from subjectively telling them how they should feel or what they should do at the moment.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>O Showing respect and empathy<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>Some people may find it difficult to discuss the suicide of friends and family members. Try to understand their feelings and show respect for their views and emotions.<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 300px; background-color: #fefef2;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: yellow;\"><strong>X <\/strong><strong>Avoid assisting them through grief alone<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u2013 <\/strong>Solely relying on yourself may not fully assist them in overcoming grief. It is advisable to help them seek professional assistance actively, such as our &#8220;Rainbow of Life Service,&#8221; which effectively combines various resources to help them move forward, face life actively, and overcome difficulties.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Tips for Survivors of Suicide Loss to Live Better<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><\/h2>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<strong>\u2013 Do not feel ashamed or blame yourself, learn to let go of questions: <\/strong>Remember that the decision of the suicide to harm themselves is not your responsibility. There is no need to feel ashamed or blame yourself for the suicide death of a loved one.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Do not fear crying: <\/strong>Give yourself time to heal from grief and believe that grief can transit.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Seek medical help for severe physical reactions: <\/strong>It is normal for physically discomfort such as headache or insomnia. If the situation is severe, seek medical attention.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Be brave to express emotions or feelings: <\/strong>Cry, confide and share with trusted people, and seek professional help when necessary.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Do not harm yourself: <\/strong>Do not act upon them when thoughts of self-harm arise.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Be mindful of the feelings of other friends and family members: <\/strong>Pay attention to the pain and feelings of other friends and family members, showing mutual care and support.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Be patient with those who do not understand your feelings and needs: <\/strong>They may simply be overwhelmed and unsure how to empathize and care.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Try to start a new life: <\/strong>Temporarily postpone significant decisions, reflect on the things you appreciate about yourself, accept these experiences as part of life and continue living well.<br \/>\n<strong>\u2013 Join a supporting group: <\/strong>Share experiences and grief with fellow survivors, providing mutual assistance.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: justify;\"><strong style=\"color: #339966;\">If you are taking care for someone with suicidal thoughts, you can contact our peer hotline, \u201cHere to Hear\u201d \u260e\ufe0f2389 2227 or WhatsApp \ud83d\udcac 5779 7356. If you are also facing emotional distress or thoughts of suicide yourself, please seek professional support. Survivors of suicide loss must also take care of their own mental health and well-being, and seek help when needed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: center;\"><strong>Donation<\/strong><\/h2>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"line-height: 1.5; text-align: left;\">We hope for your support in strengthening our efforts to promote messages of valuing life, caring for those around us, and providing proper support to prevent suicide.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 1.5;\"><strong style=\"color: #339966;\">1. Online Donation \uff08<a href=\"https:\/\/donation.sbhk.org.hk\/eng\/campaigns\/view\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">click here<\/a>\uff09<\/strong><br \/>\nVia PayPal with VISA \/ MasterCard \/ UnionPay \/ American Express \/ Discover Card. For one-off donation, our system will immediate generate a donation receipt and email to your email directly after the transaction is completed.<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"line-height: 1.5;\"><strong style=\"color: #339966;\">2. 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Other Methods\uff08<a href=\"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/?page_id=33104&amp;lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">click here<\/a>\uff09<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"line-height: 1.5;\"><span style=\"color: #dd3333;\"><b>Inquiry<br \/>\n<\/b><\/span>The Samaritan Befrienders Hong Kong &#8211; Public Communications Department<br \/>\nTel: 2363 7533<br \/>\nEmail: care@sbhk.org.hk<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"line-height: 1.5;\"><span style=\"color: #dd3333;\"><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;36042&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;10\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;] Background and Purpose [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/12&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;4\/12&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;36044&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; css=&#8221;&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;6\/12&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;] In 1999, Senator Harry Reid, who lost his father to suicide, introduced a resolution in the United States Senate that led to the establishment of International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/36038"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=36038"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/36038\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36107,"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/36038\/revisions\/36107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sbhk.org.hk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=36038"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}